I'm not talking about major incidents but if I let her know during the day that he's had a tumble and to expect a bump (fat lip today) she arrives and practical pushes past me to 'assess the damage'.

Cue lots of 'oh my poor poor baby, look at the state of you, you poor thing, has it impaired him at all today?'

I can tell she's cross about it and the pick up is short and curt with me. Usually very chatty and stays far too long!

Would you say anything or let her carry on and hope she'll get over it?