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I would keep quiet too.
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I'm the same, I normally don't tell parents when lo has taken a step for me but one parent wanted me to tell her when lo did, I would put it in lj and wait for mom to tell you excitedly that lo took first step
Cath
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I would just say child thought about walking and almost took first step - then parent may say "oh sorry forgot to tell you, they have been walking for a week now"
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Keep quiet in case but mention 'he looked like he was going to set off walking today' and see what she says xx
Kelly xx
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I never tell parents when their child achieves a 'first'.
I write in the diary things like "X is so close to walking. I really though she was going to do it today. Please let me know as soon as she does!".
One lo was walking here for almost 2 weeks before she did it at home! A couple of days later I said I'd seen it for the first time
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1. The honest-but-not-necessarily-welcomed approach: "your child took her first steps today - shame you missed it."
2. The less-than-honest-but-totally-angellic approach: "she's so close to walking - please tel me when she takes her first steps."
3. The totally-calculated-evil-approach: wait until mum comes in gushing about her lo's first steps, then burst her balloon with a calm, "oh, really - she's been walking here for weeks."
(I think sometimes the power goes to my little head. )
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bunyip
1. The honest-but-not-necessarily-welcomed approach: "your child took her first steps today - shame you missed it."
2. The less-than-honest-but-totally-angellic approach: "she's so close to walking - please tel me when she takes her first steps."
3. The totally-calculated-evil-approach: wait until mum comes in gushing about her lo's first steps, then burst her balloon with a calm, "oh, really - she's been walking here for weeks."
(I think sometimes the power goes to my little head.
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"less-than-honest-but-totally-angellic"
that's me
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Originally Posted by
bunyip
1. The honest-but-not-necessarily-welcomed approach: "your child took her first steps today - shame you missed it."
2. The less-than-honest-but-totally-angellic approach: "she's so close to walking - please tel me when she takes her first steps."
3. The totally-calculated-evil-approach: wait until mum comes in gushing about her lo's first steps, then burst her balloon with a calm, "oh, really - she's been walking here for weeks."
(I think sometimes the power goes to my little head.
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Number 3 made me actually wince lol! Imagine how much that parent would have to annoy you before you broke out the Number 3 muhahahaha
Kelly xx
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I ask parents when they start whether they want honest or tactful!
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I'm quite likely to say a number 3 without thinking! Just my style..oops!
I reassure that I'll try really hard not to let the cat out of the bag, but sometimes I'm too honest for my own good!
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Or as with my recently walking, much awaited 17 month old last week:
4. Say nothing on collection, planning to leave that 'first' for mum (especially seen as they have waited so long for it) only for older sibling to say nonchalantly 'mom x walking today'. Cue me blushing furiously as I had just told her he was very close to walking but not quite gahhhhhhhhhhhh.
Apologies for the random full stops. Phone buttons too small, thumbs too big.
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LauraS
Or as with my recently walking, much awaited 17 month old last week:
4. Say nothing on collection, planning to leave that 'first' for mum (especially seen as they have waited so long for it) only for older sibling to say nonchalantly 'mom x walking today'. Cue me blushing furiously as I had just told her he was very close to walking but not quite gahhhhhhhhhhhh.
I've had that too!
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ha ha bunyip you did make me chuckle
option 2 for me all the way!
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I think its kind of an unwritten rule with all childcare professionals that you keep quiet of a child takes there first steps with you
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I'd never thought of this, when minder took her first steps I immediately told her mum, I would feel a bit ashamed if I hadn't told her to be honest?
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Yeah, I think I'd be ashamed of myself for keeping such a fantastic moment in a child's life to myself however I get why others do it.
I currently only have parents who are just happy their children are progressing, and are ahoy to hear of these things .
I imagine that when I get a parent who had the 'oh he didn't do it with ME' attitude I would think differently, the same as all of you lol!
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Humpf. Mindee took first steps with Mum but hasn't with me - I feel so unloved!!!!
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Well it was dad at pick up and i said 'hes getting so strong now in his legs isnt he!'
He replied 'yes, its happened all of a sudden, he did a few steps yesterday'
Phew...lol
Time Out.. The perfect time for thinking about what you're going to destroy next.
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