So, I was only registered last week and had my first meeting with a mum and her little girl today. I gave her the option of coming to my home or meeting elsewhere, and she chose a cafe near a few nurseries she was also checking out. As this was the first time meeting with a potential client, I researched like crazy, and decided to take a copy of my policies and procedures, but no other paperwork. I figured we'd use this meeting to see how we get on and talk about about the service I will provide, but I didn't want to bombard her with all my paperwork until she's seen my home and decided to use my services.
My little girl (just a few months older than her little girl), is usually such a lovely, happy little thing...but all she did the whole time was whinge. The other little girl was very well behaved, and I was a bit worried that my little girl's behavior would put mum off. She asked a few questions, and I gave her answers, then she said she was struggling to think of what else to ask. I asked questions about her daughter, told her a bit about my family, and just generally tried to make a bit of conversation. I also talked about how cms have to work to EYFS same as nurseries, but I couldn't help but think she didn't want to be there and wasn't interested in anything I was saying. After about 15 minutes, she was making a move to go (hadn't even had half of her coffee), so I gave her the copy of my p&ps to take home and that was it.
Feeling a bit down about it, but hopefully it's all in my head. Oh, another thing that I don't think impressed her much was that 2 different elderly women walked past our table a few minutes apart, and both stopped to have a little chat with my daughter and tell me how lovely she was (she certainly wasn't acting very lovely!), but made no comment about the other little girl. I really hope she doesn't hold that against me, I thought her girl was lovely!
Does anyone else have any stories like this? Also, is there anything you can recommend I could do differently in future, or anything else I should take with me?
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