hi i offered to go to parent house for twin mindees 2 year health visitor check, a few reasons, to watch boys at home, and while mum talking, one of them waiting for full paediatric check as delays and issues and another reason to help with information sharing etc but now im thinking i should have checked pros and cons with all you lovelies on here, i may have to bite my tongue a bit if im given the 'oh thats nice your babysitter is here ' look or i think mum may want to show off what the twins can do and not hilight the problems they are each facing at moment
any ideas v welcome
thanks in advance