Hi All,
This may be a long post but really after some opinions please
I currently have 1 daughter of my own who has just turned 4 years old. I live in bungalow so her bedroom is opposite the playroom. Her own toys are in her bedroom and shared/childminding toys are in the playroom.
I have issues with the toys in her bedroom being shared with 6 kids every day. she doesnt always seem to mind but it bothers me as it was her birthday this week and some of the toys she has been given should be precious for her.
I have tried locking her bedroom door during the day before so that they are kept for her when im not working, but she has then wanted some kids to play in there with her and even though the rule was they didnt go through all her things its gradually relaxed and now her room is a state again and I can see things getting lost (she has a lot of little toys).
As I said i think it bothers me a LOT more than it does her so should I just chill out and let her share her room and toys if she wants or put my foot down?? I don't want to create a child who wont share , or seem like the big bad wolf to my mindees but at the same time I want her to have space to herself when Ive finished work...........
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