I am now pacing up and down fuming!
I had a little girl start on tuesday 8 - 6 pm no problems. She is only 10 months old but a sweet little girl. Today dad drops her at 8.30 (thought she was coming at 8 but he said don't worry 8 or 9 don't worry you will still be paid from 8 (as he and wife claiming tax credits).
Anyway today he came to pick her up at 5.30 (thought he was coming at 6) and I was upstairs with her. She had been crying as she was asleep and dog has barked at children playing outside and it had woken her (dog was downstairs). Anyway, I picked her up and she was quite upset and I heard banging on door, so dog barked some more, which made her cry again. I went downstairs, put dog in other room, and door banging again. I opened it and dad said ' why is my daughter crying? She has been crying for ages I can tell I know my daughter' as she was now crying a lot and catching her breath as they do when they get themselves in a state). Then he said,' I phoned you twice and you hung up I'm not stupid!'. I was so shocked I said 'I don't even have my phone on my it's in my bag I didn't hang up I hadn't even heard it!'. He said 'I'm not stupid'. I said 'I'm not lying' and he said 'I'm not arguing with you'. Then he took his daughter and left saying he will drop my money in on Tuesday as I'm on holiday on wednesday and he asked this morning if he could pay me tuesday. I said I needed the money for my holiday and he said tax credits arn't n paying his wife until wednesday. Stupidly and because I'm desperate for children I agreed to start last Tuesday with no deposit etc and do contracts after my holiday if we are both happy. He has paid me today for Tuesday worked. Anyway after he went home I checked my phone and no missed calls!
I phoned him to tell him and he said 'are you saying i'm a liar' and why are you phoning me to tell me this? I said 'to let you know I'm not lying and I didn't cut you off as you said i did!' He said 'so are you saying i'm a liar' I said no but I wanted you to know Im not lying either! He said 'maybe it was a bad signal then'. I said ' do you still want me to have your daughter then?' and he shouted at me 'yes you still have her'. I am livid and I don't ever swear!
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