hon, is mum backing you up and working with you. If not, give notice now - there is no point
if she's working with you then I'd give it a set amount of time, work with mum on a plan and as everyone says, come down hard for now. If they are misbehaving, they get to sit at the kitchen table and draw and not be anywhere with other children where you are not - so you can keep an eye on them at all times. They will learn this way that if they want to play they need to be able to be trusted.
They need to earn that trust. So tell them, you will allow them that trust at the start of each day/session, first misbehaviour they are with you, wherever you are doing VERY boring stuff.
How old is the younger one honey. If he is over 3, I would also tell mum that if he bites you again you will be calling her to collect immediately. A child of this age should not be biting anyone, never mind a grown up
plus, let me just add that I had an experience like this once. Once I gave notice and child and family were gone, it was like a weight was lifted. I found other families that were fab, not always easy but treated me with respect. You will get a feeling at your first meeting. Trust your gut
if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got
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