i have no problems at all with people breastfeeding as long as they want as long as the child also eats a nutritious varied diet of food (which sometimes can be a problem with longer breastfed children).
However, i don't think there is anything wrong in expecting children to be independent at age 3 - as long as they themselves feel ready. Both my 3 year old mindees were taking selves to toilet, handwashing alone (but supervised) before they were 3, can put on their own shoes and coats. I'm not getting them ready for reception but I feel that unless children are shown and supported to do these things at an early age they become more reluctant as they get older. In fact children who can put on shoes at 2 1/2 or 3 often then regress to 'put my shoes for me please' stage later on so it's good to catch them early whilst they are keen'
if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got
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