Confused about fees & parents taking the p***

[crazybones]

I had one parent ask me to drive her and her family to Heathrow airport from Essex on Christmas Eve as it was in their contracted hours!!!
Julia XX

OMG STUNNED INTO SILENCE

Annie x

[LittleMissSparkles]

Please don't shout at me for not having a contract! I only became registered yesterday!!! And she has only just started paying me!

we arent shouting at you just concerned she will cause trouble for you as Vik says contracts work both ways they protect parents and YOU get one put in place asap if you are keeping her xxx

[Lincsminder]

I have contracts for the over 8s too it protects us both form situations just like this. I also charge set fees for wrap around care.
£8 a night after school until 6pm including dinner so £40 a week and
£10 a week before school including breakfast. Or £45 for the both.

I have parents that pick up at 5 and others at 6 but they still pay the same allthough I might charge less if they were collecting at 4pm say £4 a night. I

[Pipsqueak]

Please don't shout at me for not having a contract! I only became registered yesterday!!! And she has only just started paying me!

Sorry I did not mean for that to be shouting I was trying to emphasise.... apologies. I sometimes forget that caps indicate shouting.

Congrats on getting reg;d by the way

[sarah707]

Please don't shout at me for not having a contract! I only became registered yesterday!!! And she has only just started paying me!

Nobody's shouting at you hun! It's just a bit scary working without a contract!

You need one to protect yourself... to make sure you get paid... and so you are insured... etc...

You should have received a pack from ncma or morton michel when you first registered with some contracts inside... if not, contact your childminding development officer and have a word...

[manjay]

I can understand that you didn't have contracts as you were minding these children before you were fully registered but if you do continue to mind them I would say to her you now have to have a contract.

DO NOT let her dictate to you. That is so out of order. I charge a minimum of 2 hours per day so whether they want half an hour or the full 2 hours they still pay the same. I make this very clear when contracts are signed. I do not do part hours either. My business, my rules! If parents don't like it they can go elsewhere. I know it can be really difficult to be strong but if you don't the parents will walk all over you.

Good luck and keep us posted

amanda xx

[Twinkles]

I have a ten pound minimum charge to do anything!!! You might want to tell her that. I have one child who arrives at 8.30 ( just one day a week) and I take her to pre-school for 9.15 and I charge £10 for this.

[Banana]

Get a contract done! Now you are registered you should get one done and then that covers you if she decides to up and off without paying you.

Secondly - tell her if 90p is causing that much hassle for her maybe she should conider the cost of minders who do not do part hourly payments and explain you are actually very reasonable with your rates.

Tell her NO - she cant pick her up on the way home, she can either get to the school and pick her up herself or she can wait for you to get home and she will be billed accordingly. She sounds like a royal pain in the jacksy!

x

[tulip0803]

Please don't shout at me for not having a contract! I only became registered yesterday!!! And she has only just started paying me!

Sorry I don't think anyone meant to shout at you . I know its hard when you first start up, I was lucky I had a friend who was already a c/m so any questions I asked her. I think everyone was just worried about you, she sounds like she will cause you trouble.

You were right to ask for advice from everyone as it is very daunting to be faced with strong personalities particularly as we are often trained to feel we are in the wrong. British "sorry mentality". Be strong do waht you want to do this is you business - the first no is hard, unless it is a ridiculous situation as in my case but once you have done it you know you can again if the need arises.

Julia xx

[Pipsqueak]

I'm worried about the newbies - they have read all our posts, views and stances and we have bred the new breed of minder "Hard Nosed"!!!! It normally takes several bad parents and a few years to get that way lol

[deeb66]

I promis I won't shout at you but.......

Please get a contract signed.

If I was you I would:-

Tell this mum that she can wait at home for you.....you will get there as soon as you can!

Tell her that due to the problems encountered you have now changed your charging policy and that she will be charged for every full or part half hour used.....so in the end 5 minutes will make no difference at all!!!!!

As I said this is what I would do but of course you need to do what you think is right for you.

[Rubybubbles]

oh hun, I know where you are ont his one, before I got reg I had a child 6 less than 2 hours a day, so had no contract, but once I was reg I got mum to do one (so maybe now you could say, now my certifcate ahs come through we need to sit down and do one maybe )

I charge 30 mins, so if a child arrived at 7.40am it would be from 7.30 (but then I charge £1.50 per 1/4 before 8am ) so don't really get much!! Then the children go into school at 8.50am but I charge till 9am, never been questioned really, sorry she's been such a ***** to you

Let us know how you go with it all

[Cheeky Chops]

Contracts are from the lord......!! I would strongly advise as everyone else has on here to get one now you are registered, the ncma do them if you are unsure of how to word yours. I am sure by now after reading all of these posts you know you need one!!!

hugs x x

[buildingblocks]

Do you think I am being unreasonable? My problem is that I am not very assertive and wouls like to end our arrangement completely due to a string of other problems but don't feel strong enough to stand up to her.

If you want to end this arrangement just give notice you do not have to give a reason but if you feel this might be taken the wrong way. Stick to your guns over the payment. Tell mum (politely of course) she can take it or leave it the choice is hers and if she is not happy then she is at liberty ro find another childminder - i personally charge a minimum of three hours a day. If it was me I would start to walk slower

[angeldelight]

Just wanted to say I agree with everyone else

Good luck hope you get it sorted

Angel xx

[Trouble]

if you dont have a contract you dont have to give her notice that will shut her up see im hard now after 3 years!!!!!!!!!

[manjay]

I'm worried about the newbies - they have read all our posts, views and stances and we have bred the new breed of minder "Hard Nosed"!!!! It normally takes several bad parents and a few years to get that way lol

You are all such good teachers!! I think I would have been a right wet lettuce if I hadn't found you lot!!

amanda xx

[Julia]

Hi I am new to childminding and am currently minding 2 eight year olds. I charge £3.60 per hour which I wanted to split into 15 minute blocks. So a child arriving at 7.40am would pay from 7.30am and when I leave them at school at 8.50am I charge till 9am as this time falls within the last 15mins of care? Does this sound reasonable?

One of the parents has complained about this and says that I should be able to walk home by 3.45pm after school instead of 3.50pm. We walk as quickly as we can and her mum is always there having arrived at 3.45pm straight from work. I charge her till 4pm under the afore mentioned rules.

She now wants to collect her whilst we are walking back to prevent her from paying an extra 15 mins @ 90p! I don't like this arrangement as it means forms won't get signed at my house and we will always have to walk the same route home so she can find us.

Do you think I am being unreasonable? My problem is that I am not very assertive and wouls like to end our arrangement completely due to a string of other problems but don't feel strong enough to stand up to her.

This is what I do, if a child starts at 7.45 and ends her day at 5.15 I can quite easily work out her hours to 1/2 hours but I would never do 1/4 hours because you would get the idiots like your parent who will try and save a few pennies.

What did she agree to in the contract?
If she insits on changing the contract hours she has to give you 4 weeks written notice, you have to change the contract to accomidate the new hours.

To be honest if its not suiting you tell her no, your not going to meet her on the way, she will meet you at the house.

When you first start out in this business you are so grateful to be getting children you put up with all sorts of nonesence, once youve been around the block a few times you'll get tougher, and your confidence will grow and you'll be able to tell these people, no its my way or the highway sweetheart!

Chin up, be strong

[sarah707]

When you first start out in this business you are so grateful to be getting children you put up with all sorts of nonesence, once youve been around the block a few times you'll get tougher, and your confidence will grow and you'll be able to tell these people, no its my way or the highway sweetheart! Chin up, be strong

Couldn't have said it better myself!

[wendywu]

If a parent is making a fuss about 90p then often you will have trouble with them and money in the future. I would start looking to replace them.

I dont mind within reason what i do and try to help people out, but i will not put up with people penny pinching and trying to cut corners.