Re: DO NOT SHOUT AT ME
Originally Posted by
lilsteff
i work 72 and a half hours a week monday to saturday... i dont want to work on a saturday time as im getting no 'me' time.
i dont mind working monday 2 friday, but working so meny hours is making me ill and is affecting my home life with partner.
yesterday a parent assumed i was ok to take their child on a saturday and sunday starting this week! i tried to say no but she is one if these peopel who make a moutain out of a molehill and exagerates situations, i offered her a number of my backup childminder for a saturday but she said no. she makes me feel bad about everything, last year i only took 8 days holidays which were due to illness and she gave me a load of grief for it too.
omg u have to stand your ground, wot are parents contracted days? if they are mon-fri then I would state you no longer offer saturdays as you have family ties and keep the wkend for yourself, I used to take hardly any holidays as I thought I have my own at home anyway so wots the difference? soon burnt myself out and dreaded mondays as I had had no time to recharge, I now take 5 weeks a year whether I go away or not.
Be strong and stand your ground a tired run down, ill childminder is no good to anyone including yourself and your family
Michelle x:current loss to date - 100lb clapping:
Bookmarks