I have my inspection on Tuesday and I will be looking after a 16 month old and my 25 month old. I could have my unscheduled 4 and a half year old come round too. She and my daughter play really well together and role play fantastically and I think it may be easier the negative is that the 4.5 year old can be shy around people she does not know and they could argue over toys etc...What to do?

Hmmm... when my ds was younger he was the one who caused most upset during important things like inspections by becoming suddenly needy, shouting, arguing, telling me I was wrong when I was saying things :rolleyes: etc when usually he wasn't like that at all!

So anything to keep him busy would have been preferable... I suppose it depends on how your dd will be on her own.

Hang on... is your dd one of the younger children you have mentioned or is she 4 like her friend? Just thinking because unless you have a variation for 4 under 5s you will be over numbers!! :eek:

Good luck! :D

No I am scheduled to have two including my daughter but could ask Mum if I could have the 4.5 yr old