how effectively you encourage children to:

respond to the expectations of othersaarrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhh

What can I think of?
Good manners- I'm sure you expect them to say please, thank you, excuse me etc
Personal Hygiene - washing their hands
Following instructions- holding hands etc whilst out and about, fetching things like shoes etc when asked.
Apologising when they've hurt another child be it verbally or a cuddle etc

right that's off the top of my head, I'm sure others will be along shortly and I'll have a longer think about it.

great thankyou i had forgotton about manners.

Great ideas from madasahatter. :thumbsup:

You could also explain how you help children to take turns and share toys.

How you lead by example in doing everything that you want the children to do, you do yourself. i.e. good manners

:)