Parent whose child I have before and after school 3 days a week has texted to say that her daughter is feeling run down with a bad cold and could she come to me tomorrow rather than go to school. Tomorrow I have no other children and I've got loads of paperwork to do for ofsteds impending visit and really don't see why I should play nurse when the child should clearly be at home in bed. Why do parents think we are nurses as well as childminders? I don't particularly want to catch this cold either or pass it on to my own child! How do I tell her NO politely without looking really mean??

I'm sorry but no if she is not well enough for school then I'm not allowed to have her here.

I agree if she isnt well enough for school then she needs to be home with a parent.

Maybe point out that you work using the same guidance as a school for illness so if school cant have her neither can you.

I've just replied giving those examples...no response yet!, I don't think it's unreasonable for me to say no to this but for some reason I always doubt myself. I imagine she's now making a voodoo doll of me!!

Completely unfair of parent to even ask, IMO. Just say 'no'.

Completely unfair of parent to even ask, IMO. Just say 'no'.

Yes very cheeky and uou are right to say no

She's trying her luck. Well done for standing your ground :thumbsup:

They just don't get it! I think sometimes they see us as a third Granny for the child or some doting Auntie, rather than really taking us for granted. Well done for saying no though!