Just need to let a bit out

[desiderata]

As you are aware I will be facing divorce this year x have tried looking into things but as I work the hours most places are open and have 2 littlies and school and nursery runs it is hard to try to get things sorted cos I have 2 adult children of my own who I look after and both live here , Well OH who has all the time in the world to get himself sorted rang last night to say he is coming down a week on saturday to sort it out.
Well thats all really the end of well we been married 27 years but the last few he llived away cos of work (well thats what he told me )

Sorry just feeling sorry for myself x no need to reply

[~Chelle~]

:group hug: x x x

[PixiePetal]

no experience of situation to pass on but sending a big xxhugxx

[Tippy Toes]

So sorry to hear your feeling down, sending hugs xx:group hug::group hug:

[Happy Bunny]

Phone around a few solicitors to explain how difficult it is to arrange coming in to see them due to your work.
Mine is lovely and posts any forms i need to fill in and we have telephone consultations.
Hugs going out to you through this difficult time, there is light at the end of the tunnel

[desiderata]

oh thank you for that didnt know any of them would do that x hugs have helped too

[boxtree7]

Remember to look your best and smile a lot when he calls around. Good Luck !! sending you some strength !! Take care.

[lozzy23]

:group hug: Just wanted to send you a hug xxx

[VeggieSausage]

poor you, awful situation to be in, if its any consellation at all it does get easier and everything eventually does get better :group hug:

[LOOPYLISA]

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[merry]

:group hug:

:)

[desiderata]

thanks everyone x

[WibbleWobble]

been there.....awful time....

mine did phone cons too like Happy Bunny...he actually popped round one evening on his way home to deliver some papers he needed for the next day...he was a nice guy. A one man band!


you will be fine....you will get through this and on the other side will feel so much better...i did. awful at the time but well worth it in the end

mandy xxxx

[stardust]

Just look at it like this -
If he's lived away for the last few years it will be no different. Except you will have closure and you are free to move on should you wish to do so.
You will be okay and at least you don't have all the stress and worries about the children and access, maintenance the effects on them ect x

[wendywu]

Once its sorted then you can start to get on with the rest of your life and you will survive :thumbsup:

Then you can treat yourself to A TOYBOY :clapping: The world is your oyster

[The Juggler]

sending a hug :(

[EmmaReed84]

I have not been in the same situation as you but I watched my Mum go through it with my Dad... My Mum was "strong" on the outside but I used to hear her cry at night. Then one day she started to talk about how she felt to me. It didnt make the feelings go away but it helped her to manage them in a positive way.

I dont know how you are feeling but all I will say is try to be open and honest with your friends and take the support you are offered... Also we are here if you need to vent xxx

[SYLVIA]

sending hugs to you. It's a horrible thing to have to go through. But it does get better and a new life awaits you soon. Ring round a few solicitors and see what they can offer you. It's been 16 years since I divorced but solicitors gave you a free half hour consultation then to start the ball rolling. Keep strong and remember, there's lots of support out there for you

[~Grasshopper~]

:group hug::group hug::group hug: