newandlearning
22-07-2011, 07:26 AM
Hi everyone..
I don't know why but I seem to have attracted mindees who don't really seem to like being at my setting.
I begin to feel like I'm doing everything wrong or not leading the children enough?
I've had one mindee for 1.5 years who finally left this week. he has spent nearly every day here saying to me ..' in two days it will be a mummy funny day again.. in one day it will be a mummy funny day' etc... now finally this week on his last day all he did in the afternoon was say 'I'm not coming ever again after today' after he said this for the fourth time.. I said .. that is such a shame as we will miss you and I know my lil boy will miss him.. and all he said was 'well I won't miss you or him'.. I feel said that my kids view the mindees as friends but this lil boy comes soo long to us and doesn't think the same.
yesterday I was going to invite the mum for a playdate to a zoo park in the hols.. but by the end of the day I felt hurt and c**p so didn't bother...
I know part of this is just 3yo's but it still saddens me as he's been with us in our home for soo long...:(
I don't know why but I seem to have attracted mindees who don't really seem to like being at my setting.
I begin to feel like I'm doing everything wrong or not leading the children enough?
I've had one mindee for 1.5 years who finally left this week. he has spent nearly every day here saying to me ..' in two days it will be a mummy funny day again.. in one day it will be a mummy funny day' etc... now finally this week on his last day all he did in the afternoon was say 'I'm not coming ever again after today' after he said this for the fourth time.. I said .. that is such a shame as we will miss you and I know my lil boy will miss him.. and all he said was 'well I won't miss you or him'.. I feel said that my kids view the mindees as friends but this lil boy comes soo long to us and doesn't think the same.
yesterday I was going to invite the mum for a playdate to a zoo park in the hols.. but by the end of the day I felt hurt and c**p so didn't bother...
I know part of this is just 3yo's but it still saddens me as he's been with us in our home for soo long...:(