donnamarie2
15-04-2011, 07:18 AM
I'm a bit wound up at the moment and wondered what i could do .
On wednesday i got a text from mindees mum saying don't collect from school as dad was collecting child (they are not together) i replied asking if he was sleeping at dads as i wanted to know if to expect him as usual thursday morning.
Mum replied saying didn't know and would let me know when she did.
Any how thursday morning no show so i presumed he had slept at dads , at home time my kids came out of school , i asked my son where child was (they are in same class) and he replied he hadn't been to school so i went inside just to confirm with the teacher as i was supposed to be collecting .
I texted mum just to let her know i had been stood waiting for her son to come out of school to find her wasn't there and haven't even recieved a reply.
It's not the fact he isnt coming that bothers me as they pay regardless , its the fact they can't even be bothered to let me know.
This family gave notice a few weeks ago i accepted and wrote a letter stating when his last day was then that evening they rang to ask if he could stay after all !! so i'm not sure if that is coming again now.
I have another family with 2 children wanting to send them but i only have car space for the 1 but they need less hours so the 2 children will only bring in the same money as he does but all the same im thinking about giving notice.
what you do i'm really cross!!
On wednesday i got a text from mindees mum saying don't collect from school as dad was collecting child (they are not together) i replied asking if he was sleeping at dads as i wanted to know if to expect him as usual thursday morning.
Mum replied saying didn't know and would let me know when she did.
Any how thursday morning no show so i presumed he had slept at dads , at home time my kids came out of school , i asked my son where child was (they are in same class) and he replied he hadn't been to school so i went inside just to confirm with the teacher as i was supposed to be collecting .
I texted mum just to let her know i had been stood waiting for her son to come out of school to find her wasn't there and haven't even recieved a reply.
It's not the fact he isnt coming that bothers me as they pay regardless , its the fact they can't even be bothered to let me know.
This family gave notice a few weeks ago i accepted and wrote a letter stating when his last day was then that evening they rang to ask if he could stay after all !! so i'm not sure if that is coming again now.
I have another family with 2 children wanting to send them but i only have car space for the 1 but they need less hours so the 2 children will only bring in the same money as he does but all the same im thinking about giving notice.
what you do i'm really cross!!