bellacat
30-12-2010, 01:19 PM
Hello everyone. I've got a bit of a dilema. My husband is in a very well paid job at the moment, but the company are horrible to work for and he is constantly miserable. He has told me that he would like to do Childminding with me. :panic: This has started alarm bells ringing. Don't get me wrong i would love to have him at home and when he is here with the children, he is great with them. I have told him that we would not have as much money as we do at the moment and that it can be really hard work. I have a few Childminder friends that work with their husbands and they seem to be getting on great. We have just had some building work done, so that i can have more space for minding and so that when my boys come home from school they have a living room that is not taken over by little ones. This also means that we have borrowed more money against the mortgage. :panic: Is their anyone out there who minds with their husband / partner that can give me some advise, or let me know how they are getting on, is it a struggle? I am so worried about putting all our eggs in one basket. My husband is really possitive about it and says that if things are quiet he can do some agency driving, (he is an HGV driver at the mo and goes all over Europe, hense he hates the job coz it means being away from home quite often). Am i being unreasonable???? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!