claire85
12-08-2010, 06:34 AM
Sorry guys but i need to let this frustration out, here goes .......................
I look after a 8 year old boy who belongs to a family friend and its convienient that he live ight opposite me lol !!!
Any way mum and dad parted back in dec and he is he main carer now although the little one does see his mum. At the start of the hols i informed the dad that i needed a couple days notice of what my hours would be as last year the mother just sent him over when she wanted , its so diff because they are friends.
First week worked well , then last week the mum was ment to have him 2 days but then didnt so i had to have him. on saturday i text dad asking me the hours i was wanted this week , then i wasn't text back till half 5 sunday evening and was asked to work monday !!! The mum had the little boy on tues , i was having him yesterday and she was having him today and tomorrow . All this changed last night as she sent the little boys dad a text at half 8 saying id have to have him today as she is working!!!!
I was only ment to have a ten year old today activities all planned but it was stuff that he had done that i was going to do with her !!!! So im now stuck!!!
It's not the dads fault but i can't take this much longer !!!
I think the saying dont mix business with pleasure is very true.
Thanks for reading guys xx
I look after a 8 year old boy who belongs to a family friend and its convienient that he live ight opposite me lol !!!
Any way mum and dad parted back in dec and he is he main carer now although the little one does see his mum. At the start of the hols i informed the dad that i needed a couple days notice of what my hours would be as last year the mother just sent him over when she wanted , its so diff because they are friends.
First week worked well , then last week the mum was ment to have him 2 days but then didnt so i had to have him. on saturday i text dad asking me the hours i was wanted this week , then i wasn't text back till half 5 sunday evening and was asked to work monday !!! The mum had the little boy on tues , i was having him yesterday and she was having him today and tomorrow . All this changed last night as she sent the little boys dad a text at half 8 saying id have to have him today as she is working!!!!
I was only ment to have a ten year old today activities all planned but it was stuff that he had done that i was going to do with her !!!! So im now stuck!!!
It's not the dads fault but i can't take this much longer !!!
I think the saying dont mix business with pleasure is very true.
Thanks for reading guys xx