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LOOPYLISA
16-12-2009, 06:21 PM
My uncle has been poorly for a while now, the horrid c :(

In the last couple of days hes really deteriorated to the point the docs have mentioned a hospice :panic:

Its my mums surprise party fri and alot of the family are now not coming obviously can understand, my mum won't even go anywhere as shes upset and also still not 100% herself and awaiting test results

AAAAAAARRRRHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Just hope if the party is cancelled :panic: we can eat all the food thats being delivered tomorrow :rolleyes:

Never rains but it pours :(

Ripeberry
16-12-2009, 06:23 PM
So sorry to hear about this sad news. Always seems worse at this time of year :( . Sounds like she has a supportive familly that will help when needed.

sarah707
16-12-2009, 06:25 PM
Sending hugs xx

Trouble
16-12-2009, 06:26 PM
big hugs xxxxxxx

Pipsqueak
16-12-2009, 06:27 PM
I think sad news is magnified at festive periods and I am sorry to hear your news Lisa. I hope your Uncle can be made comfortable and you and yours are ok.

Sending you a hug ((()))

With respect to the food - can you freeze as much as possible or distribute to neighbours?

flora
16-12-2009, 06:28 PM
Oh thats so sad :(

nell57
16-12-2009, 06:29 PM
Dont know what to say to make it better for you. Sending you hugs:group hug:

LOOPYLISA
16-12-2009, 06:30 PM
I think sad news is magnified at festive periods and I am sorry to hear your news Lisa. I hope your Uncle can be made comfortable and you and yours are ok.

Sending you a hug ((()))

With respect to the food - can you freeze as much as possible or distribute to neighbours?

Just hoping it doesnt come to that, but thankyou, great idea x

sue m
16-12-2009, 06:46 PM
Sending hugs too hun, hope things work out so you can go ahead with the party. xx

LittleMissSparkles
16-12-2009, 07:43 PM
oh hunnie sending you my love and a big hug xxxx

TheBTeam
16-12-2009, 08:38 PM
Sending you a big hug, hope all works out with the party.

angeldelight
16-12-2009, 10:12 PM
Oh Lisa what a shame I am so sorry to hear that

Hope you are ok

Sending you big hugs

Angel xxx

LOOPYLISA
16-12-2009, 10:14 PM
Thanks everyone :thumbsup:

Well looks like we have a plan to get my mum out, my bro has said he is taking her out for a meal, so fingers crossed :thumbsup:

angeldelight
16-12-2009, 10:15 PM
Thanks everyone :thumbsup:

Well looks like we have a plan to get my mum out, my bro has said he is taking her out for a meal, so fingers crossed :thumbsup:

Hope it works its never easy when you have things on your mind but it will do everyone good and I bet its what your uncle would want everyone to do - enjoy the party ?

Angel xx

LOOPYLISA
16-12-2009, 10:18 PM
Hope it works its never easy when you have things on your mind but it will do everyone good and I bet its what your uncle would want everyone to do - enjoy the party ?

Angel xx

He would im sure, have spoken to some members of the family and they are still coming so thats good, what a palarva :rolleyes:

ORKSIE
16-12-2009, 11:32 PM
Only Just seen this....Hope all goes to plan...Your uncle would want your mum happy Im sure. XXXX

Monkey1
17-12-2009, 06:16 AM
Sending hugs Lisa x

LOOPYLISA
20-12-2009, 10:31 AM
Morning everyone,

Had a call from my mum early this morning , my uncle passed away last night :(

As she said hes out of pain now,

Thanks for all your messages x

Zoemum2four
20-12-2009, 10:37 AM
Sorry to hear ur sad news, sending hugs XX

jumpinjen
20-12-2009, 10:39 AM
That is so sad.... just a thought, but hospitals and hospices are usually very understanding when this situationa rises and someone has become so desperatley ill..... If you ask, they may let you bring the party to your uncle, using a day room or something for a short time.... he might appreciate the gathering, and often there is lots of laughter remembering the good times even when people are so sad, it would be such a shame for family to miss out on getting together!

Hugs, Jenni:)

Daddy Day Care
20-12-2009, 10:50 AM
Sosorry to hear this lisa,thinking of you and your family

Gareth
xx

RachelE
20-12-2009, 10:54 AM
Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

Take Care,
Rachel x

emler
20-12-2009, 04:58 PM
so sorry to hear that - thinking of you & your family x

Tink
20-12-2009, 05:04 PM
Morning everyone,

Had a call from my mum early this morning , my uncle passed away last night :(

As she said hes out of pain now,

Thanks for all your messages x

I'm so sorry, sending big hugs:group hug:

LOOPYLISA
06-01-2010, 02:30 PM
Well it should be my uncles funeral tomorrow but has had to be cancelled because of this weather :rolleyes:

nannymcflea
06-01-2010, 02:41 PM
Well it should be my uncles funeral tomorrow but has had to be cancelled because of this weather :rolleyes:


Hope it doesn't get delayed for too long, sending you and your family hugs. X

LOOPYLISA
06-01-2010, 02:42 PM
Hope it doesn't get delayed for too long, sending you and your family hugs. X

Thankyou x

Monkey1
06-01-2010, 06:45 PM
Sending you ((((hugs))))

LOOPYLISA
13-01-2010, 01:15 PM
Well it was my uncles funeral today and ive been in bed too poorly to go :(

TheBTeam
13-01-2010, 01:18 PM
Sorry to hear about missing the funeral, hope you are feeling better soon, at least it could happen given the awful weather a lot of places are having, it would be awful to have had to put it off.

I missed the funeral of my great uncle last week because of the awful weather i couldn't risk going and getting stuck.:(

LOOPYLISA
13-01-2010, 01:21 PM
Sorry to hear about missing the funeral, hope you are feeling better soon, at least it could happen given the awful weather a lot of places are having, it would be awful to have had to put it off.

I missed the funeral of my great uncle last week because of the awful weather i couldn't risk going and getting stuck.:(

Sorry about your uncle x

it was cancelled once due to the snow :rolleyes:

I know everyone will understand, just doesnt feel right :(

LisaH
13-01-2010, 07:09 PM
Sorry you couldn't make the funeral Lisa, hope you are ok xx

Annie_T
13-01-2010, 09:34 PM
oh hun bless ya. everyone will undersatnd cant ghelp being ill

sorry for your loss least he been laid to rest now x

wendywu
13-01-2010, 09:42 PM
What a horrid time you are having at the moment so sorry to hear your bad news about your Uncle.

Look after yourself and hurry up and get better and look after your Mum as well, you can give support to each other. xxxxxxx

ORKSIE
13-01-2010, 10:26 PM
So sorry to hear you were mot able to make your Uncles funeral....Get well soon, Bless your heart XXXX

angeldelight
14-01-2010, 07:51 AM
Sending you hugs Lisa

Angel xx

LOOPYLISA
14-01-2010, 08:16 AM
Thankyou everyone, spoke to my auntie yesterday and she totally understood, i did feel terrible not going, i will go to the grave and lay flowers soon x