little_gems
15-12-2009, 07:28 PM
I started looking after a lo in march this year. He was with another childminder and i started to make friends with his mum as are children our the same age. His mum asked is i could start having him insead so i agreed.
Things have been great and we're all gone for days out togeher and we're even planning to get away together.
Then his dad started dropping him off 5 -10 minuets early and collecting him 5-10 minuets late one day he was here from 7.45 - 7.00 his contract is 8-6.
I didn't say anything really just made the odd comment about being early and late.
All the parent no i have to leave at 6.10 on a wednesday as i'm currently doing my level 3. His dad rang at 6.07 to tell me he was late. i said we would have to come with us while my husband dropped me off and he would have to come and collect when he was home. (my husband actualy dropped him back) But he had told his wife that he was at home for 5.50 and that we had left early.Then on my birthday he arrived early again so i went down in my dressing gown and said "oh ur early i was still opening my birthday pressants and card"
that night his mum sent a message asking what time our clocks say as there seems to a problem telling the time which i replayed to i go off GMTV.
Since then his mum has been really funny when she has come to collect in front of other parents. And hasn't really made any attempt to talk when i asked if everything was alright she got really funny and walked out.
I then asked if she could come round tonight to clear the air and she said yes. She then just sent a text saying that she wasnt coming.
Sorry its so long i just dont no what to do. I feel uncomftable and i really dont want the atmosphear in front of other children and parents. I really feel i have no choice but to give notice as i feel this cant go on.
Things have been great and we're all gone for days out togeher and we're even planning to get away together.
Then his dad started dropping him off 5 -10 minuets early and collecting him 5-10 minuets late one day he was here from 7.45 - 7.00 his contract is 8-6.
I didn't say anything really just made the odd comment about being early and late.
All the parent no i have to leave at 6.10 on a wednesday as i'm currently doing my level 3. His dad rang at 6.07 to tell me he was late. i said we would have to come with us while my husband dropped me off and he would have to come and collect when he was home. (my husband actualy dropped him back) But he had told his wife that he was at home for 5.50 and that we had left early.Then on my birthday he arrived early again so i went down in my dressing gown and said "oh ur early i was still opening my birthday pressants and card"
that night his mum sent a message asking what time our clocks say as there seems to a problem telling the time which i replayed to i go off GMTV.
Since then his mum has been really funny when she has come to collect in front of other parents. And hasn't really made any attempt to talk when i asked if everything was alright she got really funny and walked out.
I then asked if she could come round tonight to clear the air and she said yes. She then just sent a text saying that she wasnt coming.
Sorry its so long i just dont no what to do. I feel uncomftable and i really dont want the atmosphear in front of other children and parents. I really feel i have no choice but to give notice as i feel this cant go on.