lpsb31
25-09-2013, 08:32 PM
Sorry guys, long winded post coming up!
Things have become a little strained between myself and the mother of my full timer :(
3 weeks ago I informed her I would need 2 days off on the 10th n 11th of oct to move house (this caused enough problems in itself)
2 weeks before that I had a day off due to ending up in hospital because of a suspected ectopic pregnancy (so far carrying healthy at 14wks pregnant :) completely out of the blue tho) and last week I had to say I would be taking a day this week due to my 12yr old having an operation t remove 2 supportive nails from his leg due to breaking it (very badly may I say) last year! I only recieved the letter with a wks notice myself!
Now, due to complications my son became VERY ill after the op so had to give extremely short notice of an extra day off, this was totally unforeseen :( he is now bed bound at home til Monday
I completely understand that it is inconvenient to give short notice about anything but it was completely unavoidable and not something I hoped for but now she wants a meeting as she doesnt believe I can care for her child properly in these circumstances and is picking fault with any decisions I make that doesn't agree with her n also changing her mind about things we have agreed on for the last 5 months!
All of my other parents have been 100% supportive of my son and myself and im really upset that this has happened but I can see giving notice as my only option as im so stressed out about her reaction to the situation ive been having stomach cramps and throwing up all day :'(
What would you do?? X
Things have become a little strained between myself and the mother of my full timer :(
3 weeks ago I informed her I would need 2 days off on the 10th n 11th of oct to move house (this caused enough problems in itself)
2 weeks before that I had a day off due to ending up in hospital because of a suspected ectopic pregnancy (so far carrying healthy at 14wks pregnant :) completely out of the blue tho) and last week I had to say I would be taking a day this week due to my 12yr old having an operation t remove 2 supportive nails from his leg due to breaking it (very badly may I say) last year! I only recieved the letter with a wks notice myself!
Now, due to complications my son became VERY ill after the op so had to give extremely short notice of an extra day off, this was totally unforeseen :( he is now bed bound at home til Monday
I completely understand that it is inconvenient to give short notice about anything but it was completely unavoidable and not something I hoped for but now she wants a meeting as she doesnt believe I can care for her child properly in these circumstances and is picking fault with any decisions I make that doesn't agree with her n also changing her mind about things we have agreed on for the last 5 months!
All of my other parents have been 100% supportive of my son and myself and im really upset that this has happened but I can see giving notice as my only option as im so stressed out about her reaction to the situation ive been having stomach cramps and throwing up all day :'(
What would you do?? X