Look what came today!

[WibbleWobble]

As most of you know, I lost my 18 yr old cat last night. On top of this I am late ( iykwim) which is making me so flipping cross and angry I feel like a bottle of pop.

Then this afternoon these arrived.

From beachgirl29 and her family.

Made me cry....again

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Wibble xxxxx

[cathtee]

How lovely, I would have cried too, hope something else come soon too.

[AgentTink]

Beautiful Flowers :group hug:

[Kirstylob]

Their beautiful, shame its a sad time. Hope you feel better soon. Xx

[blue bear]

What a lovely thing for beach girl to do, you've go a good 'un there :clapping:

[shortstuff]

What a great friend you have in Beachy x

Beautiful flowers xxx

[Daisy De]

Lovely flowers, lovely friend :)

[miffy]

A lovely gift from a very thoughtful friend

Hope you are feeling a bit better today

Miffy xx

[caz3007]

How lovely x

[Kiddleywinks]

Aww, they are beautiful x

[Chimps Childminding]

Ah they are lovely! What a kind and thoughtful thing for beachgirl to do :)

[FussyElmo]

how lovely :thumbsup:

[singingcactus]

Very pretty :)

[WibbleWobble]

Ah they are lovely! What a kind and thoughtful thing for beachgirl to do :)

It was especially as I had a go at her in the playground! ...... It wasn't a nasty go at her, just a grumble. Also had a grumble at one of my mums too, who text me last night to see how I was. I text back apologising, she returned a text saying she loves me very much and if I can't grumble at her then who could I grumble to? She also said I wasn't grumbling, I am grieving. And I am.

I keep crying

Crying now.

She was only a blinking cat!

Cried myself to sleep last night, Katie said she could hear me.

God I am a pathetic woman.

There is an enormous void in the house, it's hairy and cat shaped

Wibble the very very very very very sad

[scottishlass]

It was especially as I had a go at her in the playground! ...... It wasn't a nasty go at her, just a grumble. Also had a grumble at one of my mums too, who text me last night to see how I was. I text back apologising, she returned a text saying she loves me very much and if I can't grumble at her then who could I grumble to? She also said I wasn't grumbling, I am grieving. And I am.

I keep crying

Crying now.

She was only a blinking cat!

Cried myself to sleep last night, Katie said she could hear me.

God I am a pathetic woman.

There is an enormous void in the house, it's hairy and cat shaped

Wibble the very very very very very sad

Aww wibble sending you big massive hugs xxxxx

[SJ35]

Sending more hugs :( it's so sad when we lose our pets xxxx

[The Juggler]

It was especially as I had a go at her in the playground! ...... It wasn't a nasty go at her, just a grumble. Also had a grumble at one of my mums too, who text me last night to see how I was. I text back apologising, she returned a text saying she loves me very much and if I can't grumble at her then who could I grumble to? She also said I wasn't grumbling, I am grieving. And I am.

I keep crying

Crying now.

She was only a blinking cat!

Cried myself to sleep last night, Katie said she could hear me.

God I am a pathetic woman.

There is an enormous void in the house, it's hairy and cat shaped

Wibble the very very very very very sad



oh honey. only just seen this. you need a kitten once you have grieved a bit to fill that pussy cat shaped hole. big huggles.

[Daisy De]

Don't be so hard on yourself, they are part of the family and even though I'm sure you know you did the right thing, you will still grieve, its perfectly natural.

All sorts of events/times now and in the future will bring back memories, 18 years is a long time. Its been a few weeks since my Freya died but I still have a cry when something happens or I think of things she used to do.

Each day will be easier but you will never forget, cherish the memories you have. :group hug:

[WibbleWobble]

oh honey. only just seen this. you need a kitten once you have grieved a bit to fill that pussy cat shaped hole. big huggles.

We still have Petal. She is 18 too but still as fit as a fiddle. Petal is my cat, flower was Katie's but they became "our cats" . Petal is more out going, she gets on with life but flower was mardy, always under the feet, lying across the landing. And she had OCD type symptoms (she was a bit senile) and our day was mapped out by her- meal times, poo times, medicine times. All these with her shouts of "get on with it slave".

And when petal dies we won't have any more. I am mega allergic to cats and all animals tbh. We will pull up the carpets and put down solid floors upstairs. My asthma will hopefully improve.

God I hurt

Wibble x

[MessybutHappy]

Dear Wibble,
Don't beat yourself up! Go with it, it's a horrid, horrid time, you are not pathetic, you are kind and caring.
With best wishes
Messy but wanting Wibble not to be sad about being sad...and so not very happy.

[funemnx]

What a lovely friend you have in Beachgirl - grieving is the pits ((( ))) xx

[beachgirl29]

I am always here for you mate and Mr wobble,Kate and any of your family!!! Just wanted to show we are thinking of you all she is a member of your family and you do need time to grieve.


Dont worry i needed a bit push to get myself sorted as i now have 2 new kids and one returning child signed up! And hope your feeling better I was bit worried and scared of angry wibble. xxxx

[cherry]

Sending hugs :group hug:

[shortstuff]

Please stop being so hard on yourself x I was the same when I lost a beloved animal a few years ago x it was a parrot n not a cat but its the same thing x people who arent animal lovers will never understand x

You need to grieve fully to be able to move on with being the wonderful lady who is The Wibble x

[Supernanny86]

Sending you hugs, some people never understood when we lost our greyhound last year! He was recused from a terrible life as a racer and only lived until 11 but he was part of our family big time!

They're more than just pets so its understandable that you feel this way. Big hugs, do what u have to do xxxxx :) :) xxxxx