Mrsh3103
05-06-2013, 12:10 PM
I am a newly registered childminder. I had my first parent visit me last week, she explained that her son is currently with another childminder but she's not happy with the care he gets.
He's with her 3 full days & 1 1/2 day a week. The I only time they leave the house is to go to a toddler group once a week. She has no other children so he gets no other child contact apart from at the group.
I went through everything I would do with her son. Told her about the learning journey & daily diaries. Explained the eyfs & how I would help him progress. She was completely shocked and said her current childminder has none of this. Every so often he will bring home a picture he has done- once a month max.
She phoned me after our meeting & said she would like to sort out contracts and for him to start with me as soon as her notice period with the current childminder had finished.
Today I went to the toddler group with my ds. The current childminder was there with the little boy. He was very clingy to her, constantly wanting hugs etc he genuinely seemed to love being around her.
I'm now feeling really bad, like I'm stealing business. I really don't want to start with a bad reputation with other childminders.
Earlier I was in such a flap over it all I nearly phoned mum to cancel the contract.
Sorry to waffle on but really don't know what to do now.
He's with her 3 full days & 1 1/2 day a week. The I only time they leave the house is to go to a toddler group once a week. She has no other children so he gets no other child contact apart from at the group.
I went through everything I would do with her son. Told her about the learning journey & daily diaries. Explained the eyfs & how I would help him progress. She was completely shocked and said her current childminder has none of this. Every so often he will bring home a picture he has done- once a month max.
She phoned me after our meeting & said she would like to sort out contracts and for him to start with me as soon as her notice period with the current childminder had finished.
Today I went to the toddler group with my ds. The current childminder was there with the little boy. He was very clingy to her, constantly wanting hugs etc he genuinely seemed to love being around her.
I'm now feeling really bad, like I'm stealing business. I really don't want to start with a bad reputation with other childminders.
Earlier I was in such a flap over it all I nearly phoned mum to cancel the contract.
Sorry to waffle on but really don't know what to do now.