Daisy De
29-04-2013, 08:15 AM
Background to this is two los started pre-school January, born within a week of eachother but very different.
I have just received Pre-School Assessments for both (I have a good relationship with pre-school and we share information very well) but I have come over all protective over one of the los and wonder if I should say something, the reports are written by 2 different keyworkers.
Lo 1's report is very positive, in my opinion he has a few issues which they have covered by saying "beginning to" rather a lot whilst ignoring other issues but its good to be positive and overall I agree with this one.
Lo 2's first language is not English but his English is perfect far better than lo 1 but they have marked his development stage much lower. The rest of the report is the same.
I think his development stage is much higher than they do, way above lo 1 and although I don't want to compare the two children looking at the two reports I don't get where they are coming from and feel protective over lo 2. He is a boisterous, in your face child, very loving and, in my opinion quite advanced for his age but they have only known him for a short while and seem to have got the wrong opinion of him. In a group setting I imagine he is quite rowdy through excitement whereas lo 1 would become invisible which in my opinion is a problem in itself although it makes him an easy child for them. One to one or in a small group lo 2 is sociable, creative, intelligent and he knows my boundaries so behaviour is not an issue here.
What would you do, wait for next assessment to see if time has made them know him better or say something? To be honest, I know I will say something but I don't want to alienate the pre-school so what would you say?
I have just received Pre-School Assessments for both (I have a good relationship with pre-school and we share information very well) but I have come over all protective over one of the los and wonder if I should say something, the reports are written by 2 different keyworkers.
Lo 1's report is very positive, in my opinion he has a few issues which they have covered by saying "beginning to" rather a lot whilst ignoring other issues but its good to be positive and overall I agree with this one.
Lo 2's first language is not English but his English is perfect far better than lo 1 but they have marked his development stage much lower. The rest of the report is the same.
I think his development stage is much higher than they do, way above lo 1 and although I don't want to compare the two children looking at the two reports I don't get where they are coming from and feel protective over lo 2. He is a boisterous, in your face child, very loving and, in my opinion quite advanced for his age but they have only known him for a short while and seem to have got the wrong opinion of him. In a group setting I imagine he is quite rowdy through excitement whereas lo 1 would become invisible which in my opinion is a problem in itself although it makes him an easy child for them. One to one or in a small group lo 2 is sociable, creative, intelligent and he knows my boundaries so behaviour is not an issue here.
What would you do, wait for next assessment to see if time has made them know him better or say something? To be honest, I know I will say something but I don't want to alienate the pre-school so what would you say?