Becci26
24-04-2013, 03:00 PM
This is ridiculous and I can't believe I'm stressing about this to the point of needing to advice on this matter!
Dd 8 has a friend, they have been in the same class the last 2 years and regularly have play dates swapping between here and there house.
Mum has always been friendly and we have always got on but not necessarily someone I would say is a friend.
The last few months the play dates are less frequent and dd hasn't been invited to play for ages (can't remember when was last time, possibly jan/ feb), whereas friend has been here a few times since, and I get the feeling that mum is kind of avoiding me at school etc.
Now it doesn't worry me that she hasn't been invited over as happy to do play dates here but don't want people taking the p. they have had lots going on recently so put it down to this.
But the situation is making me feel uncomfortable, mum doesn't make eye contact with me or say hello when I see her although she does stand in a little 'group' away from the other mums. I text mum this morning inviting friend over and asking what days would be good, and on a long shot if friend could do today. Mum replied and said no to today as busy, so I replied and said to let me know when else is good. Nothing. Not heard back, she didn't talk to me at school and it's all a bit weird if i'm honest!
I don't know where I stand, all the friendly pleasantries have disappeared and she just seems to blank me!
I have been wracking my brains but have no idea what's happened and why theres this change in behaviour and it's really getting to me.
Do I speak to her and ask if I've upset her? Seems a bit silly/ petty but equally not good with confrontation should there actually be an issue.
Like I said I know it's ridiculous, and have got much bigger things to be worrying about in life, but I can't shake this off.
Someone give me a virtual slap in the face please!
Dd 8 has a friend, they have been in the same class the last 2 years and regularly have play dates swapping between here and there house.
Mum has always been friendly and we have always got on but not necessarily someone I would say is a friend.
The last few months the play dates are less frequent and dd hasn't been invited to play for ages (can't remember when was last time, possibly jan/ feb), whereas friend has been here a few times since, and I get the feeling that mum is kind of avoiding me at school etc.
Now it doesn't worry me that she hasn't been invited over as happy to do play dates here but don't want people taking the p. they have had lots going on recently so put it down to this.
But the situation is making me feel uncomfortable, mum doesn't make eye contact with me or say hello when I see her although she does stand in a little 'group' away from the other mums. I text mum this morning inviting friend over and asking what days would be good, and on a long shot if friend could do today. Mum replied and said no to today as busy, so I replied and said to let me know when else is good. Nothing. Not heard back, she didn't talk to me at school and it's all a bit weird if i'm honest!
I don't know where I stand, all the friendly pleasantries have disappeared and she just seems to blank me!
I have been wracking my brains but have no idea what's happened and why theres this change in behaviour and it's really getting to me.
Do I speak to her and ask if I've upset her? Seems a bit silly/ petty but equally not good with confrontation should there actually be an issue.
Like I said I know it's ridiculous, and have got much bigger things to be worrying about in life, but I can't shake this off.
Someone give me a virtual slap in the face please!