jadavi
20-11-2012, 04:41 AM
At last my dreaded visit is over, went well (thanks to Sarah's invaluable support!) and has not affected anything in my provision or rating.
What I 'did wrong' was not to report to my DO some sensitive information regarding the parent of a mindee who was applying to be my assistant. in my discussion with the children's centre on this case I had understood her to say 'if you need support ring them up.' I was quite clear about the facts in my mind and did not need support. Apparently the subtext of what she was saying was 'cover your back and let the early years team know' which went over my head!
She then reported me to lado for with holding this info !!!!
The lady needed to see my policies and be clear in her mind that I was being professional.
Luckily everything was nicely in place and she understood why I had not let the team know. She said I was too experienced to need that kind of support but advised in the future to cover my back and not carry these things alone.
I had no idea I was doing that !! and wished the original child centre coordinator had been clearer but hey ho. All ok this time.
I am annoyed she reported me instead of coming back to me and asking me why I hadn't informed the team. Tbh I am rather confused about what each team does anyway (and always have a different DO each time so I don't feel I have an ongoing supportive relationship with any of them.) I think I do need support now dealing with this - so will request a visit. This has spoiled a big birthday weekend when I could not relax knowing I had an inquisition on Monday.
The real support came from this forum of course.
We are incredibly lucky to have Sarah with us to help bail us out at times of need. Thank you for your unflagging professionalism and support, Sarah
JA xx
What I 'did wrong' was not to report to my DO some sensitive information regarding the parent of a mindee who was applying to be my assistant. in my discussion with the children's centre on this case I had understood her to say 'if you need support ring them up.' I was quite clear about the facts in my mind and did not need support. Apparently the subtext of what she was saying was 'cover your back and let the early years team know' which went over my head!
She then reported me to lado for with holding this info !!!!
The lady needed to see my policies and be clear in her mind that I was being professional.
Luckily everything was nicely in place and she understood why I had not let the team know. She said I was too experienced to need that kind of support but advised in the future to cover my back and not carry these things alone.
I had no idea I was doing that !! and wished the original child centre coordinator had been clearer but hey ho. All ok this time.
I am annoyed she reported me instead of coming back to me and asking me why I hadn't informed the team. Tbh I am rather confused about what each team does anyway (and always have a different DO each time so I don't feel I have an ongoing supportive relationship with any of them.) I think I do need support now dealing with this - so will request a visit. This has spoiled a big birthday weekend when I could not relax knowing I had an inquisition on Monday.
The real support came from this forum of course.
We are incredibly lucky to have Sarah with us to help bail us out at times of need. Thank you for your unflagging professionalism and support, Sarah
JA xx