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    My dh would run a mile if a lap dancer came anywhere near him, he talks a good game in front of his mates but I know that he would be so embarrassed lol
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    When hubby was in the Army a function was arranged for them by a squadron, they did this every year but one year they had comics and strippers!!!! Hubby told me straight away and it really didn't bother me but other wives weren't told and boyyyy did it cause problems.

    Hubby told me exactly what went on that night and I'm just grateful he likes his beer and was stood at the back. people were actually getting jiggy jiggy on the stage

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    No no no!! I would not be happy at all.

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    I would be really upset if my DH watched a stripper. I am overweight and everthing is heading south and to think he would purposely go out to look at another, more attractive, woman is good as cheating, I wish I had the self confidence that other woman have and not feel the way I do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jelly15 View Post
    I would be really upset if my DH watched a stripper. I am overweight and everthing is heading south and to think he would purposely go out to look at another, more attractive, woman is good as cheating, I wish I had the self confidence that other woman have and not feel the way I do.
    There is more to being attractive than pneumatic tits (am I allowed to say that?) and smooth skin - beauty shines from the inside Jelly and people remember you with love for the things you do, not for the thong you wore

    by the way - I'd be peeved about the cost, but would trust DH - doubt he'd ever go though!

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    when i first read this I though NO but acuttualy when I think back to when we first moved it I went on a ladies night and watched strippers, no touching though but it was a night out and a laugh an if thats all hes going for then its fine with me.
    if he started going reguarly I would get the hump .

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    I see Pauline hasn't replied to this thread so I assume I am ok to go then.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Graham View Post
    I see Pauline hasn't replied to this thread so I assume I am ok to go then.
    possibly but has she seen it or not

    i wouldnt risk it
    One life live it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graham View Post
    I see Pauline hasn't replied to this thread so I assume I am ok to go then.
    Spare room for you if you do

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    a strip club for a stag yes, a regular visitor - no also a strip club show is very different to a lap dance club where girls approach and dance their bits into mens' faces.

    I trust my dh a 100% but still wouldn't like it.
    if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got

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    Quote Originally Posted by angeldelight View Post
    Would you let him go to a well known strip club

    Knowing the girls pole dance then go and sit on the mens laps ....putting their boobs in their faces and touching them in certain ways to get the men excited?

    Would you mind?

    I just heard a story about a women who divorced her partner because she found out her hubby was in the same sort of situation

    Your views?

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    My husband would never want to go to one, would feel it inappropriate for a married man... I wouldn't have to say anything
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    Quote Originally Posted by JulieA View Post
    I wouldn't like it either. Think divorce is a bit extreme (unless it is a regular thing) but I certainly wouldn't speak to him for a while - and there'd definately be none of the how's yer father!
    Oh dear so maybe agreeing to the boys in work taking J to one for his 25th was not a good idea then, They got him a stripper for his 21st and he was terrified to tell me because he though i'd leave him.

    It doesn't bother me, James is too much of a wimp to do anything- he knows how good he's got it

    But then It may have something to do with being relieved to have him out of my face for a few hours so I can actually do stuff without the constant flow of questions or getting stressed at the trail of crumbs and dirty boxers on my clean floor.
    You can’t have everything. Where would you put it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by charleyfarley View Post
    Spare room for you if you do

    Carol xx
    Oh yes you would say that

    Look at that poor man who was locked in with you for hours the other week

    Angel xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by angeldelight View Post
    Oh yes you would say that

    Look at that poor man who was locked in with you for hours the other week

    Angel xxx
    He wasn't a poor man, he was very privliged And egging to come back He was very tasty though so he can sort out my boardband any time

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    Quote Originally Posted by charleyfarley View Post
    He wasn't a poor man, he was very privliged And egging to come back He was very tasty though so he can sort out my boardband any time

    Carol xx
    Behave

    Your here late again ,I said that the other night but you logged off and missed it ha ha

    Angel xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by jelly15 View Post
    I would be really upset if my DH watched a stripper. I am overweight and everthing is heading south and to think he would purposely go out to look at another, more attractive, woman is good as cheating, I wish I had the self confidence that other woman have and not feel the way I do.
    Jelly, I look like an elephant and weigh about the same but I would never want to be anyone one else, okay so maybe I would be a little bit taller because dragging a chair across the kitchen to reach the biscuits is getting tedious

    No-one is 100% happy with how they are, we as human's like to nit pic, its only natural. We diet, dye our hair ect

    I just think that James loves me and my wobbly bits so why should I worry about what other people think? They are not perfect. They have things they would like to change, weight, size, hair colour ect x
    You can’t have everything. Where would you put it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by angeldelight View Post
    Behave

    Your here late again ,I said that the other night but you logged off and missed it ha ha

    Angel xx
    I know Angel, I was too shattered to move

    Carol xx

 

 
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