As a fellow lone parent I fully appreciate how you feel but maybe you need to have a chat with your son about whether it is something he can live with one day a fortnight or not? Is it that important an issue in the grand scheme of things?
My ex and I have been apart for 12 years and yes, he does things that I do not necessarily agree with (like McDonalds lunches and fizzy drinks
) but generally, overall he's a good doting father and my son loves him. In his house its his rules - like its my rules in my house. My son is with me 90% of the time so my rules have much more influence!
We try not to argue about the small stuff so when I do have a go (like the time my son came home with a BB gun ... that WON'T be happening again!) he knows I really mean it. Criticising his parenting skills would be seen as an open invitation for him to do the same back and I don't think the constant bickering would have done our son any good. Sometimes you just have to swallow the less important stuff to maintain a healthy parent partnership. I know its hard x
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