Just had that conversation with mindee.

[venus89]

Wish he hadn't said anything!

He's 3 years old and calls his willy his 'phallus' (wish he wouldn't). As he was sitting on the toilet he said 'you don't have a phallus, do you?' and I said no, I didn't

'Mummy doesn't have one either. Just Grandad does. And Uncle *****. He has a big one. And he has hair in his pants!'





Ewwwwww

[Zumba-mum]

What did you say to that? My son who's 5 the other day say daddy i got really small hairs on my willy do you thankfully we were home. .

[The Juggler]

remember both my dd and my ds informing friends quite loudly when they were going to the toilet and 'observing each other' that we don't have hair, you have a willy, girls have a minny, mummy has a hairy bottom and daddy has a hairy willy

for the record I don't have a hairy bottom

[MAWI]

Note it down if your concerned. Maybe have a word with parents? If you have a good relationship with them.

Is there a possibility that there could be a simple explanation, I.e have they gone swimming as a family together?

It's always difficult when safeguarding issues /thoughts arise.

Just follow your procedures in place if your genuinely concerned.

Sending hugs

[SYLVIA]

remember both my dd and my ds informing friends quite loudly when they were going to the toilet and 'observing each other' that we don't have hair, you have a willy, girls have a minny, mummy has a hairy bottom and daddy has a hairy willy

for the record I don't have a hairy bottom

Oh juggler that really made me titter! I will be smiling about that all day now and i'm glad to hear you don't have a hairy bottom!

[VeggieSausage]

remember both my dd and my ds informing friends quite loudly when they were going to the toilet and 'observing each other' that we don't have hair, you have a willy, girls have a minny, mummy has a hairy bottom and daddy has a hairy willy

for the record I don't have a hairy bottom

lol....one of my friends children once piped up with 'Daddy's got a really furry willy hasn't he mum'...which we killed ourselves laughing with

[debbie1]

oh that made me laugh Juggler, i bet you would be glad of a hairy bottom in this weather would keep you warm debbie

[venus89]

Note it down if your concerned. Maybe have a word with parents? If you have a good relationship with them.

Is there a possibility that there could be a simple explanation, I.e have they gone swimming as a family together?

It's always difficult when safeguarding issues /thoughts arise.

Just follow your procedures in place if your genuinely concerned.

Sending hugs

Oh I have absolutely no concerns about it at all, I just really don't want to think about anyone having a hairy bottom, I like to imagine everyone's like a Barbie doll under their trousers! And this family are a little eccentric, as you can tell from the term 'phallus' (took me a long time to work out that it wasn't 'my fella', which I quite approved of) so I especially don't want to think about their bottoms

[Velleity]

My daughter keeps asking dog-walkers if their dogs has a willy or a 'bomba'.

[The Juggler]

OMG, I hadn't even read this thread as a safeguarding concern listen if he goes to the toilet at home with family or showers when family members take him to the swimming baths it is perfectly normal for children of this age to see family members naked - isn't it ???

[Bear23]

Wish he hadn't said anything!

He's 3 years old and calls his willy his 'phallus' (wish he wouldn't). As he was sitting on the toilet he said 'you don't have a phallus, do you?' and I said no, I didn't

'Mummy doesn't have one either. Just Grandad does. And Uncle *****. He has a big one. And he has hair in his pants!'





Ewwwwww

How funny

[The Juggler]

oh that made me laugh Juggler, i bet you would be glad of a hairy bottom in this weather would keep you warm debbie

well furry boots maybe veggie, never heard parts described as furry before, sounds very animalistic

[Carol Raeburn]

remember both my dd and my ds informing friends quite loudly when they were going to the toilet and 'observing each other' that we don't have hair, you have a willy, girls have a minny, mummy has a hairy bottom and daddy has a hairy willy

for the record I don't have a hairy bottom

This did make me chuckle thank you Juggler

[kindredspirits]

this thread made me laugh - my DS came out of the toilet the other week whilst DH was in there having a wash, saying 'wow daddy has a really big willy' I dread to think of him saying something like this to a stranger....

[handeme]

One of my friends little boys was drawing a picture of his family at school, he was still drawing his family as stick people. Anyway my friend was approaches by the teacher at parents evening to say that this was one of the pictures that had been done by her child for family week at school, when she looked at it all of the people had an extra line between there legs. My friend must of looked puzzled and the teacher replied 'yeah we were puzzled to so we asked **** if it was him his brother, daddy and maybe an uncle' to which he replied no that's my mummy and she doesn't have a tinkle like us boys she just has hair!

C x

[Twinkles]

My 3 year old daughter ( now 26 ) drew her uncle a picture of himself.

It had 3 legs and the middle 'leg' was huge !

'Don't be silly mummy that's not his leg that's his penis' she said !
( she did have two brothers so she knew about these things )

Uncle didn't know whether to be hugely proud of himself to be depicted this way or hugely embarrassed

[Mouse]

They make you laugh don't they?

I had one mindee who told me that his mummy had big boobies and his daddy had a big willy!

And I had a brother and sister who used to laugh about their mum's hairy bottom

[caz3007]

My DD is 22 and she used to call my bits my 'fluffy' cos of the hair

My son sees both of us in various states of undress and to me its normal. I can remember the chat about who we knew who had willies and who hadnt, it got quite far reaching too

[llkbabob]

If the child's family is anything like mine you don't get any privacy in the bathroom, everyone's been to the toliet, so I think I will be safe to have a shower how wrong am i!! I remember when my dd was 3 I was having a bath and she came in and said will I get a black forest like you when i'm older! I burst out laughing. Still laugh about it now

[Mummits]

My youngest lad recently asked his older brother why he was growing a beard at the top of his legs!

My eldest boy many years ago coined the term "underlegs" which we still use. He said some ladies had fur on their underarms and their underlegs!