Hi, I'm a newly registered cm and I was just after some advice on how long it took your lo's to settle into 'mummys new job'?
My DD1 is 4.9 and when I told her I was going to become a cm and pick her up from school every day she was over the moon ("this is the best day EVER!" were her exact words ). I've been reg since Oct but only got my first 2 mindees in Jan (one of the boys in her class and his 8 yr old sister). The first couple of weeks she was really good and loved them coming home every day but last week everything seemed to go to pot with her crying and begging to go to friends houses after school she had 2 play dates this week and she liked those (not to mention the mindees and my dd2 (2) got on a lot better too!) but I'm not sure if this is normal.
Our childcare fell through last summer and I thought this would be the ideal solution to benefit all the family so I can be there for my dds (dd1 has been in childcare since she was 5mo and wanted to know why mummy couldn’t pick her up from school) but she seems to be just as unhappy. Is this a phase and will she get over it or should I really start thinking about another way to make money from home, we can't survive on DH's salary alone and I hate seeing her so upset every night?
I try to give her attention after they go home but sometimes it’s a rush just to do dinner, bath, story and bed
Any help or advice will be greatly appreciated.
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