I had a new little boy start with me this morning. He is the Latvian boy who I wrote about in a previous thread.
We didn't have any settling in sessions because his mum needed me immediately so I guess I was thrown in at the deep end a bit although he came both times with mum for interview and signing of contracts.
Anyway I've only had him for half the day and already mum has had to come and pick him up.
He has been out of control all morning. He arrived at 7.30am and from then on he was like a wild child - throwing toys, jumping on toys, smacking dd and other mindee, pulling hair, climbing on furniture and over the top, climbing on worktops, throwing ornaments.
I first put it down to being a bit overexcited at being in a new environment but it continued all morning. We went to playgroup and he was the same there. He dragged children out of toy cars, he hit a little girl in the face with a plastic plate because she had a toy he wanted, threw a huge bucket of water over a little boy (I could go on...)
Whenever I tried to say no to him he just screamed at me and tried to hit or kick me. Then went straight back to doing what he was doing again and laughing.
Dd was also trying to copy him which I was really worried about.
So by lunchtime I had had enough and rang mum to collect him. She was very apologetic and said he had never done that before but I told her that I couldn't look after him anymore as it wasn't good for dd and other mindee (I've not spent a minute looking after them all morning as all my energy was with this boy).
I feel so disappointed in myself for not continuing and giving him more of a chance but I just couldn't do it.
Other mindees mum saw him when she dropped mindee off and commented on it and I've just spoken to her and she told me that she wouldn't have been happy if I had carried on with this but I've lost a full time place before I've even started and am now back to square one again.
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