Hi All
Had a bit of a run in with a parent last night over something that was totally untrue. The basics of it was she came into my house at collection time and started abusing me verbally in front of her own child and another mindee over something that was unfounded. She terminated contracts with immediate effect. I don't need to go into details but it was so untrue it was laughable. She also changed her story when she spoke to my registered assistant.
My question's are as follows:
1) I have notified Ofsted of what actually happened as well as asked my witness to write a witness statement as they witnessed this all and a previous verbal attack from her. This is because she advised she was making a formal complaint. She is basically very opininated and I disagreed with something to do with my own child (basically because it was something we had tried before and it had not worked - therefore I advised this but said I was open to other suggestions) and she took it as a personal insult. Sorry - but I know my child better than her. She then started to say I bullied her child and called him a xx on a daily basis - all totally untrue and indeed his daily diary says how happy he is with me, he can't wait to come and at weekends asks to come - hardly a bullied child! Do I need to do anything else re Ofsted? Also how do I log this as a complaint in my complaints file as it was verbal. Sorry have never had a complaint before from a parent.
2) I use NCMA contracts and I am their member. I am insured however through MM. She has stated she will not pay her 4 weeks notice pay. Bearing in mind that the contract at point 25 states if it is necessary to cease childminding immediately, payment must be made in lieu of notice. Therefore i feel I should chase her for payment. Any thoughts?
I personally feel that this has been a long time coming and that yesterday was engineered to terminate a contract without having to pay by making false allegations about me. I will fight this every step of the way in respect of false allegations as they are so untrue and I am so pleased I actually had a witness to all of this. I've worked very hard in my job and I am very proud of it and I will not let another individual ruin all I have achieved when it is so untrue. Had it been true thats another thing but it is not.
I think the thing that annoyed me the most was yesterday my husband left to go to Afgan. I've been very honest with parents and offered to not have their children on that day at no cost as I would clearly be upset (some even suggested this themselves). Or they could send their child but be appreciative that we were all saying goodbye in the morning and I was not going to be this all singing and all dancing childminder. She chose to send her child, played the sympathy card with me and then had a go cos I cried when my husband left! Apparently it was not fair on her child to be in a negative atmosphere - hello hence why I suggested no childcare yesterday.
She then sat outside my house for 15 minutes with her child laughing her head off (again witnessed by more than one person). Not bad for a child who left my house so distraught cos I apparently bully him and call him a xx!
Any advice would be greatly received.
Thanks
Lisa
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