Hi there minders!
I look after my 2.5 year old niece three days a week and have recently noticed a change in her behavior. She pushes boundaries constantly and doesn't seem to be learning that this behavior is unacceptable. She was always very good for me and if ever she was naughty a few spells on the time out step would usually teach her and that would be the end of that phase.
recently she doesn't seem to be getting it. It's as if she's stopped caring whether she's a good girl or not.
To be honest she is pushed from pillar to post. She now goes to one set of grandparents on a Monday, me on a Tuesday, other set of grandparents on a Wednesday morning then they take her to a nursery in the afternoon, Thursday she's back with me, Friday morning she's with me then she's picked up by grandparents and taken to nursery in the afternoon.
I feel she's stressed and has far too many different routines and different carers to adapt to.
I don't want to step on grandparents toes because I know they love having her but I feel she has too much to deal with. I may see if I can get a variation so I can take her more often. But the nursery is a new thing and I can't see them dropping it as her Mum was really keen for her to go.
Agh!
Want to help as I really feel for this little girl but don't want to offend, or accuse anyone of stressing their child out.
What do you all think?
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