I look after a little girl who is 3 3/4, and she rules the roost at home. When her mum was collecting her tonight my husband came home, and asked her how she was. She was standing next to her mum and ignored my husbands question. To my complete surprise her mum never said anything to her, so I said to her "Mark spoke to you, its rude to ignore him!". Her mum said (in a soppy voice) "Didn't you hear him?" She was barely 2 ft away from him, and definitely heard him! Mum then told her dd to ask hubby to repeat his question, which she did very quietly. I could not believe that mum wasn't going to say anything to her, she is a university lecturer and obviously very highly educated, but when it comes to dd she, and her husband, are completely ignorant! If dd whinges for anything, she gets it. In winter she would arrive with no coat on because she didn't want to wear it! She wears the same clothes for a week because she wants to! She is brilliant when she's with me, but as soon as mum or dad arrive she becomes all babyish and misbehaves, and they never say anything. On the odd occasion when I've had to tell her off she has got very upset because she's not used to being told off! I feel like screaming at them to take control, its only going to get worse as she gets older!
Do any of you have a similar situation? Do you say anything?
Lynn x
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