The child already under care of ss, I've been keeping a diary for a long time about my concerns as SS rang after initial visit wanting info about mum and child
Mum also asked at initial visit if I did overnight care so I'm assuming she does work late.
I don't know for sure what hours mum works but she's supposed to drop child off at 1pm and she supposed to be at work for 1.30pm but very unreliable and doesn't turn up until 1-2 hours later, child gets collected at 7pm but has been collected late sometimes as much as 40 mins but other family member makes out he's picking the child's mum up and taking them home.
Mum's very shady about things and won't talk to me about things and leaves very awkward silences or offers little info when I need to discuss things.
There's lots of things that point to lack of knowledge or lack of interest, accident slips left in back of diary, not replying to childminder comments, not sending child in appropriate clothing - hasn't been in a coat yet even when raining (even gave child one of my daughters that was too small but she never been in it since so have had to buy a spare). Also wasn't being potty trained when she came to me (almost 3 when started) but mum not been fully supportive and I'm getting conflicting stories of child's progress from mum and other family member.
If mum spoke to me about her difficulties I could offer more help but she won't talk face to face and if I offer to phone later she turns her phone off or makes excuses not to talk.
Don't really know where to go from there.
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