I have been minding a little boy who is now 28 months.
For the last 10 months or so he has been thowing what ever he can get his hands on, particularly through anger. Smacking me, headbutting me and snatching.
Ive somehow muddled through with ignoring it if its for attention, time out until he calmed down, distraction does not work with him. Even sometimes putting him in his travel cot as I cant deal with him anymore. This works as he seems to calm down once he realises he cant get his way.
He recently had his hours cut and I no longer have him on a monday as grandparents now have him.
I had my other two mindee's yeasterday and it was lovely, no stress.
Hes back today and straight away Im stress and finding myself raising my voice at him to get him to listen to me.
The final straw is my daughter was lying on the floor playing with material and he lifted up the basket they were in and threw it down on her, no accident, it was on purpose. She was screaming as hit her in the eye and Ive told him that was not nice and shes now hurt, he always just goes straight into crying and screaming because he doesnt like to me told no and told off.
Mum knows what he is like as he does it at home and I think shes now lost what to do with him as I dont know either.
I do think he has some issues but she thinks its just anger and him being a boy, copying his cousins but theres other things like he gets really obsessed about things always repeating things over and over, gets really possesive over certain toys and will hassle other children until they put it down.
A fellow childminder also feels that it is more than bad behaviour but what else can I do, Ive tried talking to parent and she doesnt agree.
On the verge of giving notice but cant afford as other two mindee's hours are being cut and one leaving me in september.
HEEELLLLPPPP
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