Background: Child (3.5 years) arrives in cheaper variation of Crocs at beginning of summer. They rubbed her poor little feet raw and I ended up having to carry child to her parents to pick up trainers and socks so she could walk back to mine (parents was nearer and Mum's B/F was in).
She didn't wear them for a while after that until this last two weeks. Day 1 child gets blistered feet again (through socks). I have to put her in my bugaboo pushchair which is too small to hold her (risking breaking it) and carry toddler about a mile to my home. Wrote up in accident/incident as skin broken and bleeding and asked mum not to send child in them again (in writing). Day 2 she turns up in them again. I explained to mum that we are stuck at home cos I can't risk having to carry her child with blistered feet and push a double buggy with two toddlers in. Her reply was "Well she's ok in them all weekend".
Next day she wore them again so we stayed home whilst she was with us. Asked mum again not to send her with them, reply this time was that her trainers at at Nanny's up the road but she'll drop them back later so she'll wear trainers tomorrow. To cut a long story short, she's worn them every day this week and tells me "These shoes don't rub my feet". We have been stuck at home every bl**dy day this week because her mum will not send her in proper fitting shoes (eg trainers etc not necessarily clarkes shoes, lol!). She has other shoes so it's not a case of only being able to afford the cheapies...
I've asked really nicely 3 or 4 times for her to wear 'proper' shoes and put it in writing too. Today she turned up in them again so I've sent home a letter about inappropriate clothing and how crocs/flip-flops etc are not suitable footwear for a childminding situation where the children are using large play equipment, going for long walks etc. (it was a newsletter with plenty of other stuff in too)
Am I being unreasonable asking this parent to provide proper shoes for her child whilst she's in my care? Or should she be able to send her child in whatever she wants?
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