I'm in a bit of a difficult situation and am wondering if I have said too much already. Here it is - I attend a playgroup where a friends child goes with her CM. The CM does not know me & the child is too little to say. Last week I saw the child left alone, getting distressed, clearly needing some attention. Her CM was sitting chatting and having a cup of coffee, I left it for a while then as the CM wasn't going to get up and play with the little one I did as I could stand it no longer. Then the little one was ok. The CM picked her up later. When I saw my friend I happened to mention that I had seen her Lo & she went on to ask me what I thought of the CM& how the lttle one was as she has not been happy for a while. I did tell her what I had seen (gave her positives also) and she is now really worried wants me to go back this week & let her know how things go. I feel like a spy but on the other hand she is my friend & I would want her to do the same for me. What would you do??
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