I have looked after a 1 year old boy for 2 months now,but he hasn't settled at all,despite my very best efforts.
He screams non stop from 8am-6pm,and I mean heartbreaching(and eardeafening screams!)
I just dk what to do,have tried everything in the book,believe me,there is no stoned I haven't turned.
He won't interact with the other child or play with any of the toys,he will only sleep about 30 mins over the 10 hours that he spends here.
I have never had this problem previously,as it usually takes no longer than 1-2 weeks for a child to settle in.
I think one problem may be that his parents really mollycuddle him,he never sits in a highchair at home,he'll eat sitting on their laps,they put him to bed about 10pm,and he'll wake up at 5am.
I asked them prior to them signing the contract if the had a set routing,and they assured me he did.
Then one day his grandfather came to pick him up,and asked me how on earth I was coping with him,telling me he would never sleep in the day,and that the child has no routine whatsoever(so,basically,the parents just said whatever I needed to hear in order to get that contract signed)
I just cannot cope with this anymore,it is sooo unsettling for the other child that the parents has now taken him out and are putting him into a nursery!
He used to love coming here,but now he comes in the morning and cries-No,don't want to go,baby cry,mummy,don't want to go!
My only option really is to find a replacement for this child as this constant screaming is wearing everyone down,not just me,the other child and my own child,but the neighbour next door works from home and complained to me the other day about this little boys excessive screaming.
Have any of you ever had this problem?It's def a first for me and I'm at my wits end .
I feel like a failure in not managing in getting him settled here,but I also know that there's nothing more that I can do.
Not sure if it (his behaviour)has got anything to do with the fact that he is 4 months premature,haven't got much knowledge in that field(if that would affect his development)
But,any advice would be GREATLY appreciated
Thank you:-)
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