very upset 2 yr old at drop off
Hi all, I have been minding a 2 1/2 year old since he was 7 mth old and has always been fine at drop off although parents do faff around with him a bit ie chasing him around the room to get a kiss out of him and child seems to at times prolong saying goodbye and giving them a kiss. The last few weeks he is getting really upset, saying 'he doesn't want to stay here' and 'please dont go mummy', his mum and dad know that (i think) that once they have gone he has a fab day and is very happy and content. Drop off time usually results in me taking child off them whilst extremely upset, this is hard for both of them or a couple of times mum has sneaked out whilst child is busy, which I told her not to do, she still does this at times and once child knows she has gone is even worse.
When he arrives I get out some of his favourite toys and invite him to join me and the other children, he comes eventually sometimes with parent but still gets upset when parent gets up/leaves. I think it is probably a phase but has been going on now for a few weeks. I dont think it helps that he sometimes sleeps in his parents bed and that his mum isn't shall we say as firm as I would be at times ie she says no you cant have my phone, he cries, she immediately gives in.
Any advice? please please help x