Originally Posted by
mumofone
Thanks flora, im asking the child all the time and am never more than a couple of metres away from them. We have a downstairs toilet and ive cancelled all trips etc so we are just literally at home and in the garden. We have a toilet step and child seat on the toilet - everything is in place for the best possible toilet training (i feel!) so its just so disheartening that child isn't telling me. Child was just sat in soaked through clothing after another accident and still wouldnt mention it when i noticed the wet patch on the floor. They are an intelligent child, meeting all goals etc, no SN and they have my undivided attention (unless they literally go whilst im typing this out!!). After every accident i tell them they must tell me if they need to go, they say yes, then they do it agin. im asking them all the time too but its tough to capture that 5 miliseconds when they decide they need to go.