help new screaming 1 year old, I dont know what to do!
Hi all, I have a LO who has just turned 1 on a mon/tues all day. I did lots of settling sessions and LO was always fine, no trouble at all. well I am 4 weeks in now and all LO does is cry, the separation from parents is fine no tears whatsoever. The minute we get in coats off the crying starts. LO is a first child so used to getting all the attention. during the day I have one 3 year old of my own, and a 21/2 year old that I mind. we are a nice quiet bunch, the older children are nice and sedate, and luckily play really well together. but baby just screams the whole time, if I pick up the screaming stops. If I go to help one of the others, or pop out of sight for one second LO screams, and I mean really screams, I never leave LO alone, if I go to another room to do something I take baby with me, and put in a playstation, while I'm cooking that type of thing. If I go to the loo I put little one in the playpen, and my goodness all hell breaks loose! the screaming is basically constant unless I hold all the time, and I am not prepared to do that, its just not possible.
So what should I do, I just cant take it anymore, has anybody had experience of this? how did you handle it? I have had 3 babies of my own within 3 years, the eldest being 6 now, and I think I have a reasonable bit of experience in their needs. but this baby just screams all day, I cant do anything. I am thinking parents probably give constant attention, and LO is not used to self soothing, but would you do what needs to be done, share out the attention and care for each child as required, and just let LO scream it out?
Please help folks, not one of my babys was ever this needey!