desperate: advice needed re childs behaviour please
I am really reaching breaking point with a just turned 3 mindee. He is also my grandson but he is not treated any differently to my other mindees (I treat them all like family!)There is also no option to terminate contract as I never give up on a child. For the past few weeks his behaviour is terrible.He pushes and slaps my other minded children non stop. He isn't bothered if anyone is looking. When I say non stop I really mean he doesn't stop at all. Also I have two babies just standing and every chance he pushes them flying. He literally cannot go past any child in my setting without a hard slap or push. At playgroup he still picks on my mindees but no other children there. We have tried talking to him but it has no affect. He laughs and runs off. Or if we say 'don't do that to your friends' he slaps himself really hard in the face to make himself cry. I hate seeing him so mean and sad because he is a beautiful and loving child. I also hate seeing the other children cower when he comes near them. and every one of them does. I lost my dad three weeks ago and I wonder if it affected him. we are a very close family. He is loved but not spoilt. His mum is really upset by his behaviour too. I have a baby next to me as I write and hes trying to throw wooden blocks at her head. There is no give up with his behaviour. Any advice would be greatly received because nothing we say or do is having any affect. Thank you. I'm desperate.