My own boy and my mindee won't stop fighting !
Hello,
Desperately in need of help!
I've just started childminding and took on a wee boy the same age as my wee man (2.5). Initially I thought it would be fantastic and they would be great friends. However I spend the whole time separating them because they are fighting, usually over a toy! My boy doesn't like him playing with anything in the house and whenever he sees him playing with a toy he immediately goes over and snatches it from him. My mindee has become wise to this and doesn't let my boy bully him so they end up in an actual physical fight! It's really horrendous and stressful for me because I have to be on guard for this happening the whole time so I can nip it in the bud and literally can't look away for a second. Even when my boy is not being aggressive in any way they still end up fighting because my mindee has got so used to conflict that he pre-empts it and starts one himself !! I usually like a good problem to solve but I am literally at my wit's end and do not know what to do! The only time they are happy playing near each other is when we are outdoors at a big empty playpark or at the beach. But we can't go to the beach everyday!!:cool:
If anyone has any ideas, or has experienced anything like this before I would be incredibly grateful to hear from you. I totally did not foresee this coming.
Thanks,
:-)