I've got a mindee who does some clubs after school but I find the later pick up time so disruptive as we all have to wait around for the later pick up (rather than picking up as usual school finish time and getting on with our day) and it clashes with the younger ones tea time which is not fair on them. I'm thinking of saying I can only do regular school pick up time from now on but don't want to upset mindee and p!ss of parents, what would you all do in this situation?