Hi, has anyone here ever been asked to do a "deal" for a friend, purely because they're your friend? I've had a request from one of my best mates (although only sort of hypothetical as she doesn't know if and when she'll need childcare yet), but I just don't feel I can afford to cut her a cheaper deal. I think it'd be different if I was in another profession, where me doing work for her doesn't limit what I can do for other people, but when I'd have to turn down paying families because of the spaces her children take up, it's a bit different. On the other hand, I feel really guilty and money-grabbing by saying no, as I know that she'd happily look after my kids any time for free, because she's my friend!