Sixth sense in childminders?
Does anyone else get this, I don't want to sound picky or rude but sometimes when a parent phones to enquire about places I get a 'feeling'
I'm not judging AT ALL but today I had this answerphone message from a woman who sounded half asleep
Hiya I wanna place for my kid but I don't wanna be paying loads. I've gotta sort out with my dole money and money from his dad what gets paid and then I'll sort it with you. He's 2 and can be a handful. I'm not sure what days I want, probably a monday and wednesday but I'll be dropping him off about 11am and not sure what time I'll be picking up, it might be different on different days. Can you ring me back on this number ***** or this one *** or maybe this **** and tell me how much you charge and if theres a discount. Cheers bye.
As soon as I played back the message I got a red flag, and I really don't want to be rude but I immediately thought 'no way.' Does anyone else have this?! I'm not being a snob I promise, as I'm very aware that rich/posh people can be just as dodgy with payments etc, I just wanted to see if I was the only one making snap judgements and if it might actually be damaging my business, as she may be the loveliest woman ever and pay every week on time for all I know!
sixth sense in childminders?
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kellyskidz!
Does anyone else get this, I don't want to sound picky or rude but sometimes when a parent phones to enquire about places I get a 'feeling'
I'm not judging AT ALL but today I had this answerphone message from a woman who sounded half asleep
Hiya I wanna place for my kid but I don't wanna be paying loads. I've gotta sort out with my dole money and money from his dad what gets paid and then I'll sort it with you. He's 2 and can be a handful. I'm not sure what days I want, probably a monday and wednesday but I'll be dropping him off about 11am and not sure what time I'll be picking up, it might be different on different days. Can you ring me back on this number ***** or this one *** or maybe this **** and tell me how much you charge and if theres a discount. Cheers bye.
As soon as I played back the message I got a red flag, and I really don't want to be rude but I immediately thought 'no way.' Does anyone else have this?! I'm not being a snob I promise, as I'm very aware that rich/posh people can be just as dodgy with payments etc, I just wanted to see if I was the only one making snap judgements and if it might actually be damaging my business, as she may be the loveliest woman ever and pay every week on time for all I know!
I've learnt by past experience. Years ago I had a similar thing happen and I was doubtful if I wanted to meet the parent and child as unfortunately I was judging them on where they lived (high rise flats in a not very nice area) and not very proud of myself for doing so, but I agreed to a visit. They were the loveliest people and I cared for the little girl for a number of years - about 6 ; so when I had another enquiry from the same place I didn't hesitate and again a lovely dad and son although first impressions weren't that good it didn't take long for their true selves to shine through! So I would say interview them and give it a go if the mum wants to and do a month settling in so you can always say no at the end of that time as you will have got to know them by then. Good luck!