i find in these situations with kids who go crazy or don't want to leave that preparing them helps. so talk to them during the day about being nice to mummy at pick up, how we are going to help mummy when she comes as she's had a long day and will want to have fun with you..... etc, etc.
then, just before she is due to arrive (ask mum to text 10 mins away if possible) say mummy is on her way, lets tidy up (or whatever suits) and then, we'll get your things together. Ask "what are you going to do when mummy gets here? give her a huge hug/tell her about your day" It might take a few goes but it does really make a difference.
if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got
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