Hi
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I think the little girl needs to have the law laid down in no uncertain terms. At any and every misdemeanour I would have her sat on the thinking spot for 3 minutes and explain very simply why. then have her apologise to you or whoever she has wronged and say she will not do it again. If it means she spends a long time on the thinking spot, so be it. Her behaviour is making you miserable, but she is only a little girl and has to be shown in a way she can understand that her behaviour simply wont get her anywhere.
Regarding the running away, I'd just put her on reins rather than in the buggy as its just giving her another opportunity to misbehave. It is a safety issue and if she doesn't like it tough. If she wants to be silly she will have to pay the price. Children misbehaving with me on the school run have to stand next to me and we all stop and wait until the child is behaving before we continue. I just say 'let's wait for x to calm down and behave nicely again' and ignore them (as far as I can without compromising safety).
At the same time I'd have achievement charts for all the children and praise her for all the great things she does.
As others have said, I would also talk to Mum about behaviour. Tell her honestly its having a huge impact on the other children and starting to wear you down. Tell her what you are going to do to tackle the behaviour, how long you are prepared to try it before you will be giving notice ( I agree: you can give notice on just one child from the family: it may be jealousy of the baby that is the reason behind all the behaviour issues and a separate childcare setting may be exactly what she needs!) and that you would really appreciate it if she could support your methods for the most successful outcome.
But saying all that.... If you can do without the income, just give notice and re advertise. You chose this job to have a good time, not a bad one
very best wishes,
Wendy
Really hope it can be sorted out so you don't lose the income
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