My best tip being in the middle of surviving 2 teenagers is to pick your battles.
Before you ask anything of him just stop a moment and think about whether it's really important or not.
If it can go over your head without too much damage - picking up clothes, changing bedding, tidying room, helping wash up - just for now put it on hold.
Instead focus on the important stuff - not smoking, not drinking, not doing really stupid things.
As for the strops - ignore them like you would a toddler! He is just shouting for attention. Give him time when he is being nice.
If he's mithering for things 'everyone' has say no if you can't afford them and keep saying no. Don't let him get away with it or wear you down. You have to be in control for a few more years.
Good luck!
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